
“any "female” can present herself in a feminine and alluring way with patience and practice, but before you can captivate and entrance even an audience of one, you must learn to move with effortless beauty.“
2. Substitute clumsiness and jerky movements with graceful and fluid actions
No more clumsiness for you! u are about to be as elegant and sexy as possible. Many of you may look masculine but your movements can say otherwise. A few tips about how you can be a classy lady.
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Learn to walk with elegance. You’ll feel like a fake if you just clump along while walking. True "girly girls” sort of look like they’re floating. Put one foot in front of the other (literally). Toes should face forward. Your footprints should form a single line, as if you are walking on a rope or a beam. When done quickly, this gives the body that characteristic swing. Your ankles should never bump, this is painful and may make you fall! Look straight forward, capturing the essence of the clothes you’re wearing with the expression on your face. Focus on an object straight ahead of you. Keep your chin level and your eyes up. Keep your head and shoulders still as your body moves. Your head and shoulder should feel a little like a sturdy coat hanger, and things should swing from there. Don’t swing your shoulders, and don’t over exagerate arm movements. Do make sure, however, that your hips swing more than they would usually. This may take some practice to look good, but after that you will be able to loosen your hips and wiggle properly.
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Learn to stand like a diva. Practice your posture, make it relaxed but erect. Pretend that your head is being pulled up by a hair on the crown of your head to elongate your neck, lift your chest, and allow your shoulders to fall back. Also, pretend that there is a string attached to your sternum (breastbone) that lifts your chest toward the sky to hold your ribcage up off of your pelvis and to pull your navel into your back.Repeat this to yourself in your head: chin up, neck long, shoulders back, chest out, abs tight, pelvis forward, and buttocks tight. At first you may feel that you are leaning back a little and you should be able to feel pressure and length in the small of your back.
- Move as little as possible when performing practical or enticing actions. For example, if you wish to look over at something or someone, move your eyes first until they cannot move any more, then move your head, then your torso and adjust your lower body last and only when necessary. Always return to your most relaxed state and never maintain a tense position.
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Appear inviting even when you stand still. Arrange your left foot slightly in front of your right foot (your left knee should be slightly bent), and these toes should point forward and slightly inward with only some of your weight bearing on the ball of this foot. Your right foot should be almost directly behind your left foot and turned to the right to be perpendicular to it, and these toes should point to your right and slightly inward with most of your weight bearing on the ball of this right foot. Attempt to gently bend your knees toward each other to exude more panache. Additionally, your body should be turned to position your right elbow behind your right hip, and you should delicately turn your head toward your nearest shoulder (i.e. your left shoulder) to complete the pose.
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Walk slightly slower. Everything done just a little slower looks graceful and sexy.
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Keep your hands open with your fingers nearly totally straightened. Pretend as though you are gently holding a feather from a seagull in each hand and keep all movements fluid.
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Always have confidence and be fully present in your body. Allow your soul to come out from your eyes, relax your jawline, relax your lips to form an ideal shape. Present the best possible you in each and every present moment.
Meaning it has to fit. You do not want to look like white-trash and wear your favorite over sized t-shirt. You should be wearing clothes that give you an “hour glass figure”. Buy shirts that complement your breasts and stomach. If you are flat chested, v-necks help a lot. Don’t try and be a slut though. That just makes it look like you’re dying to get laid or something.

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You will need a light-wash and dark-wash denim skirt, light-wash and dark-wash pair of shorts, and two pairs of dark-wash skinny jeans.
- You will need five plain tank-tops in the colors: Pink, black, blue, green, white. These will be good for layering and a weekend casual look when paired with shorts or jeans.
- You will need cute undies, not that anyone will be seeing them. Nothings better than feeling cute underneath.
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You will need white and pink Jack Purcells. No substituting. They can only be Jack Purcells. Jack Purcells go with anything, and they are very adorable with jeans.
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You’ll need three cute dresses. They must be at least above the knee. Girly girls are a little bit showy. Abercrombie has very cute dresses, and if you don’t feel comfortable wearing a short dress, pair it with leggings and flats. Now that you have all this, you can start adding adorable shirts and other things to your wardrobe. Girly girls are always pink.

Make sure you comb it with a wide toothed comb or a brush, wash it every day or every other day, depending on your hair type, and don’t use too many hair products. It looks gross when your hair is all stiff and oosing with hairspray and mousse. If you have flat hair (meaning no volume), use a volumizing spray. You spray it close to the roots and work your hands through it to give it the volume it never had. If you have curly hair, spraying tons of hairspray and mousse makes your hair look really crappy. DO NOT pull your hair back (half up half down) if you have curly hair and attack it with mousse and hairspray. It looks horrible and immature when you do that. It is not bad to straighten your hairs everyday, and you do not need a heat protectant. That is a common myth. Sure, if you are going to straighten the crap out of one strand of hair that strand will probably need some protection. When straightening or curling your hair, make sure it is dry. Start on the back, because when you first turn on the straightener there is a lot of heat and if you use it on the thin front hair, it will fry it. If you only do one stroke on on each layer or section of hair, you will not do any damage. But continuously going over and over each layer or section will damage the hair severely. THAT is when you need a heat protectant. Try different hairstyles everyday, like half-up half-down, high-ponytail, side-braid, low pig tails, curls, etc. Be creative.
12. Keep in tip-top shape
Keeping in tip top shape is very important for you. Exercise daily. Of course you don’t want body muscle. So stick to aerobics, pilates and yoga. You want to have well toned muscles and that’s it. Give priority to your lower body: your hips, your thighs and your legs. Don’t eat too much dessert. It would be smart to eat low-fat (or fat-free) foods. However, this doesn’t mean starve yourself. You don’t have to be stick thin. As long as you’re healthy, you’re fine!
13. Use mostly pastel colors such as pink and baby blue
14. Have a bright personality, bubbly and happy
15. Get girly clothes – skirts, cute shirts, accessories, jeans, cute shorts…anything bright is good
16. Wear jeans that fit

Don’t wear low cut jeans if you don’t feel comfortable, but make sure your jeans fit you and are not tight or baggy. A belt is okay, but the fit says it all. Try on lots of brands, styles, cuts, and sizes. Not every size jean will fit the same depending on the brand. The same goes with shirts. Not tight, not baggy. If your shirt is so tight you can see your bra or you have trouble getting your shirt off of your back, then it’s too tight. To see if the shirt is too small, raise your arms up. If your stomach shows when you do this, then the shirt may be too small. Things like camisoles are supposed to fit tight.
17. Stick to nice colors, nothing to violent or something that stands out too much

Nice colors would be anything light, clean and fresh looking. Nice outfits-jeans and shirts that suit you, skirts and tank tops, that kind of thing, leggings are nice too. Pair things up with a pair of shoes that fit and go with the outfit, and maybe a simple, plain chain and bracelet. Earrings can be a little long if you want-but nothing that is too violent.
18. Learn to talk well

19. Stop swearing
It may be hard to cut out, but swearing is one of the worst things you could do if you’re trying to be ladylike. Try making a deal with your friends about not swearing for a day. Just think about proving to everyone you have the will power and self control to actually control and think about what comes out of your mouth. If you’re a person who swears loads, this is not a ladylike thing. Definitely say things like “shoot” and “idiot”. Try not to use bad words like “crap” or “moron”. They’re not okay. Try to make very calm and civil comebacks, not the regular old stuff. It’ll take practice, but it’s a huge step towards being ladylike and girly. You will never use words like “asshole” or even “fuck”. No matter what they tell you, you will never comeback at them with such words. In time you ’ll have to get used to it and forget that they ever existed!! Instead you can learn to stick out your tongue. It’s girly and cute and the best way to express your negative thoughts about someone.
20. Be graceful
This is a difficult step, but also a crucial one. Being graceful doesn’t mean you have to hate sports and walk on tip toe. Just make sure you walk with your head up, shoulders rolled back and your back straight. Don’t swagger, or swing your hips a lot. It looks exaggerated and weird. Don’t swing your arms either – keep them by your side.
21. Have good taste in clothing

Be modest in clothing and avoid clothing of bad taste. Extremely low necklines, too short skirts, belly-bearing tops and revealing clothing can make a girl look like she does not respect her body and herself. Shirts with inappropriate sayings, logos can make a girl look like she’s desperate for attention. The posh are not desperate for attention.
22. Be as feminine as possible
23. Hang out with gal pals

Girls love the mall, shopping, and almost anything associated with beauty. Get a group of friends and have a shopping spree, makeovers, a sleepover, a bake sale or any girl-related activity..
24. Always be nice and generous
25. Don’t let anyone mess with you
26. Have a few possible comments to respond with if someone is insulting you

You are a girly girl, totally unable to defend yourself, so if a boy insults you, you will do what the weaker party has to do. You will try and walk away from him. If he doesn’t stop, you will start crying and beg him to leave you alone. That way, you will buy some time until somebody comes and rescue you. Of course there is the alternative to insult him verbally (you can not get physical with him!). Although, in that case you may make him even more angry and dangerous. The best alternative is to use your charms to calm him.
28. Fads, trends, or whatever you call them are important.

30. Don’t hang out with boys a lot, you will start to copy their ways!!